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Erotic Hypnosis is for Women Too
If you google the phrase “erotic hypnosis”, you can easily find at least two dozen sites dedicated to femdom erotic hypnosis men, but only one or two sites selling recordings for women. (And no, I won’t name the competition.) Perhaps because men aggressively seek porn more than women do, there are more web sites and products that cater to men’s fantasies. But women can enjoy erotic hypnosis too; especially if it’s written specifically for them.
Back when I aspired to be a novelist, I read The Joy of Writing Sex by Elizabeth Benedict. The book excerpted sex scenes from several novels and short stories, and showed how the writer could use each character’s personality to develop a unique sexual scene. One character was a musician, so the sex was described in musical terms, i.e., rhythm, tempo, harmony. Another character was an immigrant so the scene was described with contrasting references to her original home. But the broader lesson of the book was to write about sex “in context”.
Writers like Erica Jong and film producers like Candida Royalle have shown that women love stories that depict eroticism in the context of a relationship or as an outward expression of inner desires. Porn (for guys) is sex divorced from emotion (except lust). Erotica (for women) is emotion that expresses it self sexually. So when I started writing erotic hypnosis for women, I took Benedict’s advice and wrote erotic audio stories; albeit with strong hypnotic content.
Take for example, my recent release, A Tango in Subspace. The hypnotic suggestions in this recording are designed to a woman feel more submissive. But unlike the femdom recordings that I’ve listened to, I don’t tell the listener “You are submissive, you will obey”. I tell a story. I tell the listener about a character who is on a journey of self discovery; a character with whom she can empathize, and with whom she’ll enjoy discovering what it means to feel submissive.
Within the story, the character is hypnotized and instructed to visualize herself discovering the joy of being submissive. Like with a written story, if the listener likes the character, she’ll want to share the character’s feelings of desire and discovery. And to do this, the listener will open herself the suggestions that the character accepts. If the listener can see herself AS the character, even better. Because then she will visualize herself accepting the hypnotic suggestions.
The overall effect often surprises listeners. Even women who love reading erotica are surprised to discover that they enjoy erotic hypnosis. Callie Byrne, who reviewed my Introduction to Erotic Hypnosis for Oysters & Chocolate Erotica, wrote “listening to the story was unlike anything I’ve ever experienced.” Nat Ion at The Erotic Woman.com wrote “It took me to a previously unexplored place within my own sexual self; one which provided some unexpected thrills and distinctive feelings.” Neither woman had previously considered hypnosis as erotic, but they both deeply enjoyed the experience of listening to a hypnotic erotic audio story.
Erotic hypnosis doesn’t have to be about femdom and it doesn’t have to be just for submissive men. Women now write and enjoy a variety of romantic and erotica stories from time-travel romances to shape-changing dragons (Shanon Abe's Queen of Dragons is a great erotic romance about shapechangers). And women can enjoy erotic hypnosis too.
Erotic Hypnosis Fetish
It's been said that a person's mind is their most sensitive erogenous zone. It's true; try to pleasure yourself while thinking about something like the world's plight. It is not likely to get you very far no matter how good the physical sensations feel. Good sexual pleasure requires the right frame of mind. Is it no surprise that something which goes straight to your mind can be extremely erotic?
Erotic hypnosis for me is that something: a deep rooted fetish which has the ability to provide me with the most intense sexual pleasure. For as long as I can remember, the mere thought to being hypnotized has been enough to cause at least gentle arousal. To actually experience it for real was something which for a time I could only dream about, often while pleasuring myself.
Hypnosis itself has every day, beneficial uses; for most it is not erotic at all. That may be said of most all fetishes; something that is just a thing to many can be an intense sexual turn on for others.
What I've found with fetishes in general is they need to be just right to have their most potent effect. A defined set of parameters that some way, some how, have become tucked away inside my erogenous mind. In order to feed my fetish, the hypnotist must be a woman. She needs to possess a sensual voice. And She needs to present an attitude of control. After that I am simply putty in Her hands.
The Joy of a Willing, Hypnotized slave
By Mistress Alexandra
www.asluttywife.com
Here’s a basic truth that I and other leaders often hear: “You can lead a horse to water, but you can’t make him drink.” As I’ve learned, it’s especially true in Erotic Hypnosis.
A man can program his mind any way he chooses. If he wants to be a piggish, stubborn know-it-all, that’s his prerogative. It’s unfortunate, because these misguided “king wannabes” have no idea what they’re missing! They’ll never know how wonderful it feels to be led through life by a beautiful, intelligent, talented, nurturing, feminine Woman – a shining Queen who is Superior to him in every way.
These enlightened men possess the intelligence, desire, and passion to serve a Goddess like Me. I demand a lot from My slaves! Fortunately, My best ones have a great talent they want Me to exploit.
Hypnosis versus Magick
~by Goddess Lycia
www.goddesslyciasworld.com
mag·ick
n. An action or effort undertaken because of a personal need to effect change, especially as associated with Wicca or Wiccan beliefs.
The American Heritage® Dictionary of the English Language, Fourth Edition. Retrieved October 27, 2007
hyp·no·sis
n. An artificially induced altered state of consciousness, characterized by heightened suggestibility and receptivity to direction.
The American Heritage® Dictionary of the English Language, Fourth Edition. Retrieved October 27, 2007
In the past five years as a Hypnodomme, I’ve often reflected on the similarities between hypnosis and magick. I do not consider Myself a witch or Satanist, as many people assume. If I have to give Myself a label as far as religious beliefs are concerned, I’d say I am agnostic. However, I have learned a lot about magick from My mother, who is a clairvoyant. Mainly, she taught Me about the power of visualization and the manifestation of desires through the focus of thought and energy.
Erotic Hypnosis at Hypnoticon
Hypnoticon recognizes that people can morally and ethically explore these subjects as consenting adults. We’ve assembled some of the finest hypnotic minds on the planet, many who are experts in the area of hypnosis for erotic pleasure and exploration. Some of our speakers earn their living from sexually charged trance. Others are serious hypnosis academics, who have explored these areas as an interest or a hobby, and are presenting their findings publicly for the first time. Others deal with mundane problems, but as they apply to the sexually alternative communities. We feel that these experts bring a much needed sense of professionalism to an interest perceived my many to be taboo. There will always be experimentation in these areas. Guidance and proper instruction will reduce problems encountered by the novice hypnotist, and an open dialogue only enhances the exchange of ideas and techniques.
Who are these guests and where do they come from? Well, in order to present a well rounded sense of erotica in hypnorotica, we’ve pulled in experts from many areas. We have Panels with Hypno-Dommes, an Erotic Hypnosis show, lectures on power play and how to give an orgasm with only your words, a therapist specializing in the Alternative communities, as well as mainstream subjects that are sexually charged for some people. Body Language, Covert Hypnosis, and Influence, while not overtly sexual, have always been mainstays in the Seduction Communities. Our workshop exploring deeper trance states may be just the thing you were looking for to spice up your play.
As I recently found out at a very large and well known, uptight hypnosis convention in the Northeast United States, many of the best lessons are off the cuff and private. After a hard day of trancing and being tranced, several of my new found hypnosis friends and I got on the subject of erotic hypnosis and orgasms. After a brief discussion of theories and techniques at nearly midnight, we secured a more than willing volunteer, and found an unused lecture hall. The ensuing demonstrations, given by these internationally known hypnosis experts was fantastic! These techniques, captured on video, would be worth a small fortune. Unfortunately, these things have always been taught and discussed behind closed doors. One of the driving forces behind the creation of Hypnoticon is to bring these subjects out into the open, for all to learn and enjoy. I’m sure we’ll have our share of “private” demonstrations and discussions. With the open environment, I just can’t imagine what sorts of ideas will be discussed in private… can you?
Join us for Hypnoticon, and the exploration of hypnorotica in the Alternative Track.
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